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Blog · September 26, 2026 · 6 min read

How Much Does the Tooth Fairy Leave? Deciding Your Number

A few coins and a small folded note beside a tiny tooth on a bedside table

There is no correct amount the Tooth Fairy leaves — anything from a shiny coin to about five dollars is entirely normal, and the national average is the least useful number to copy. What matters far more is picking a figure you can repeat for every tooth, for every child, for the six or seven years this goes on, because the thing children notice is not the amount but the difference.

Consistency beats generosity

The single most common regret parents report is not that they gave too little. It is that they started too high, or improvised, and then had to explain why the second child got less, or why the fourth tooth was worth half the third.

Children keep score with startling accuracy, and a sibling comparison is the only version of this that ever genuinely upsets anyone. So pick a number you can still afford cheerfully on the twentieth tooth, at the end of a long month, with two children losing teeth in the same week. Then never move it.

If you want the first tooth to be special, make it special in a way that does not set a price floor — a letter, a small keepsake box, a coin from the year they were born. Doubling the money for the first one is how families end up with an escalator.

What other families actually do

Delta Dental runs an annual Original Tooth Fairy Poll, which is where most of the figures quoted in the press come from; at the time of writing their page showed a US average of $5.84 1. Treat that as a weather report rather than a target: it is an average across a whole country, it moves every year, and it is pulled upward by the households leaving the most.

In practice the distribution is wide and lumpy. Plenty of families leave a single coin. Plenty leave a dollar or two. A smaller group leaves five or more, often for a first tooth only. Nobody outside your house knows or cares which you chose.

The number that should actually decide it is what is normal among the children your child actually talks to. That is the comparison they will make, and it is not in any survey.

The alternatives to money

Money is not compulsory and often is not the part they remember.

  • <strong>A coin, but an interesting one.</strong> A foreign coin, a shiny dollar, one minted the year they were born. The oddity is the point.
  • <strong>A book.</strong> Expensive if you do it every time; lovely for a first or last tooth.
  • <strong>A letter.</strong> The cheapest option and, judging by what people keep in boxes, the one most likely to survive thirty years.
  • <strong>Fairy evidence.</strong> A dusting of glitter, a tiny footprint, a note written very small. Costs nothing and delights a five-year-old more than any amount of money.

The awkward cases

<strong>A tooth swallowed or lost.</strong> The Tooth Fairy takes a note describing it. This is universal and children accept it instantly.

<strong>A tooth pulled at the dentist.</strong> Same rate. A tooth is a tooth, and a child who has just been to the dentist has arguably earned it.

<strong>Several at once.</strong> Pay per tooth or you will be renegotiating for years.

<strong>A child who asks for more.</strong> The Tooth Fairy does not negotiate, which is a useful thing about her. The rate is the rate everywhere, for everyone.

Write it down somewhere

Whatever you choose, record it — the amount, and which teeth have gone. By the third child nobody remembers what the first one got, and that is exactly the gap a nine-year-old will find.

A lost teeth page does both jobs at once: it keeps the record and it becomes the thing they look at later. Pair it with a letter from the Tooth Fairy naming the actual tooth and the day, and the amount you chose stops being the memorable part — which is rather the point.

Questions parents ask

How much money does the Tooth Fairy usually leave?

Anything from a single coin to about five dollars per tooth is entirely normal. Delta Dental’s Original Tooth Fairy Poll is the usual source for a national average and showed a US figure of $5.84 when checked, but averages are pulled up by the highest-paying households and change every year, so they are a poor target to copy.

Should the first tooth be worth more?

Only if you are happy to keep that precedent. Making the first tooth worth more in money sets a price floor that is hard to walk back, especially with several children. Making it special another way — a letter, a keepsake box, a coin from their birth year — gives the same occasion without the escalator.

What if my child swallows the tooth?

The Tooth Fairy accepts a note describing the tooth instead. This is a universally used solution and children accept it immediately. The same applies to a tooth lost in the playground or pulled at the dentist, and the rate should stay the same.

Do you pay per tooth if several come out at once?

Pay per tooth. A flat rate per night invites negotiation for years afterwards, and children track this sort of thing carefully. A consistent per-tooth rate is the easiest rule to hold for the six or seven years the Tooth Fairy visits.

Sources

  1. The Original Tooth Fairy Poll. Delta Dental.

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